When you have the shelter of God within, He will test you in various ways. Your duty is not to get agitated when these sorts of events hurt you. There is a saying of God, "You look to Me, I look to you. Even then, if they do not leave Me and still seek Me, I then become their humble servant."
The smiles and frowns of life are His tokens of love. Bear them with loving patience, you have to forsake nothing. Neither indulge, nor restrain.
