And what is  self-control? 
Do not be mistaken by this word 
and let yourself believe  to be the controller of other's joys,
 for the one that lives to control  the life of another, 
walks the path of a mere coward. 
Self control is  controlling anything that may affect
 the "self' to function with its  fullest purity. 
No temptation must become a hindrance 
and no obstacle  must become your fear to 
walk ahead, towards Me. 
You must, O child,  believe in yourselves 
and have faith that you are capable to live life 
with sweet perfection. Nothing more - nothing less! 
To make this  perfection a reality, you must exercise
 the strictest discipline over  your own weaknesses 
and tendencies to fail. At all times, you must be  alert
 against the alarm of your own inner evils. 
Once you have slipped  into the folly of a mistake, 
let not this mistake turn to become another  habit. 
The disease of bad habits must be broken with
 the iron will that  will not break under the cruelty of any torture.
 Have the strength and  the discipline to endure 
all for letting your principles live and  killing with it, 
each time, a little more of your weakness that
 gave in  to sinful desires.
 Know that desire will only let you slip
 each time  into a well that is deeper, 
and when the end is near and you will call  aloud for help, 
the only voice that will respond to this desperate plea 
will be your own pitiful echo, for when the voice of evil cries,
 God  will not respond. 
Make a promise that you will not allow 
your faults to  repeat and allow them to break you. 
You can enjoy the bliss of a game, 
 only when you observe its rules and regulations. 
Similarly, to enjoy  this bliss of existence, 
one must observe divine principles, and only  then, 
will this game of life result in a peaceful victory.
from a divine source 
 
