Respect is nothing but learning to
recognize the strength of one's sacrifice, 
 accepting and appreciating another's ability
 to focus on the self and  placing the one before yourself,
 by humbly attempting to learn and  follow another's lead 
of goodness, and thus, being inspired in this  process to 
eliminate one's own faults by focusing your attention 
only on another's spiritual strengths and gains. 
Realize and recognize that  even the one 
you deplore and detest has, at least, one strength 
that you  can appreciate - live to exaggerate that strength, 
and thus,  wipe your own weakness of hatred that stains 
the purity of your heart. 
There is no living being that does not deserve 
the offering of respect -  there must be no one 
that must be degraded or humiliated by exposing 
and ridiculing their faults, for each one has buried 
himself in another  heap of filthy faults.